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Lubrication can enhance any sexual experience. Plus, it's absolutely vital for some activities where the body is not self-lubricating, such as anal sex. We carry a variety of lubes such as silicone, water-based, hybrid, anal, organic, warming, and flavored for great head! Also try our aphrodisiacs and stimulants for a more sensitive and alluring experience. Swoon your partner and enhance your libido with any of our pheromone sprays and lotions.

Confused on what to buy? Water-based lube is inexpensive and reliable, and is safe to use with sex toys or latex contraceptives. Plus, they're easily cleaned up after and can be flavored for that extra spice in the bedroom. Silicone lube, on the other hand, lasts longer than water-based lube. Just be careful as using silicone lubricant with a silicone sex toy or other silicone device can cause silicone-on-silicone reactions. Take a peek at this water-based lube or this silicone lube for starters.

The Velvet Lily also carries a variety of aphrodisiac and stimulant options. Balms like the natural aphrodisiac balm offer a sexy alternative to foreplay, and a cream like this male aphrodisiac can bolster your man's gusto.