Finding the perfect dildo for a strap on harness can be difficult if you're not sure where to look. Thankfully the Velvet Lily has a large selection of sex toys, dildos, and strap ons to equip your strap on harness. Look for a dildo with a flared base to assure that the dildo does not fall out during play.

Strap on dildos come in a variety of materials such as glass and silicone.   If you're interested in a strap-on dildo without needing to wear a harness, try our double ended dildos and harnesses for female to female or female to male partner play.  The Tantus Feeldoe dildo is for two different partners, one holding the dildo in place with their pelvic floor muscles with the additional bulb-shaped material. A strap on dildo comes in many sizes and some come with vibrating insertable bullets,  but the benefit is that it can be used for either partner play or as a solo sex toy.  

Fun Factory
$39.99
Amor Amor catches the eye with its elegant somewhat realistic form. With a velvety texture and curved angle, this dildo is sure to offer endless stimulation upon insertion. Amor is made out of 100% body-safe silicone.  Flexible yet firm, Amor is...
Fun Factory
$99.99
Bouncer At first glance the Bouncer has all the best characteristics of a dildo. The sleek, abstract design and the gently curved shape is perfect for stimulating the G-Spot and prostate, but doesn't easily give away the surprise it hides inside. Every...
Tantus
$47.17
Silk A toy from the Silk line is the perfect choice for a first dildo. This line will allow you to safely try a new experience and not feel awkward or embarrassed about purchasing an extreme toy. The Silks are available in three sizes and are a sensual...
Fun Factory
$74.99
Tiger Feel The Roar! Tiger has a powerful appearance, yet is soft to the touch with its silicone finish. A versatile dildo, Tiger offers diverse sensations with both smooth and ridged surfaces. The curved tip makes G-spot stimulation accessible and the...
Tantus
$69.99
Curve The Curve is designed to maximize sensation and pleasure in the most sensitive areas. With its namesake bend is specially designed to maximize sensation with both G- and P-spot play! With a short length design and a specially designed wide base...
Blush Novelties
$25.25
Luxe Cici Cici was designed to give you the utmost in pleasure. Whether it’s vaginal or anal this beautifully hand sculpted G-Spot searching dong has subtle ridges and a bulbous head to intensify every thrust and everything in between. The base is...
Tantus
$45.69
Acute The Acute Dildo is a medium-sized toy that mimics the perfect angle of penetration, especially when used with a harness. Well-sized for both vaginal and anal play. Details: Body-safe, Easy to clean Silicone G-Spot, Clitoral, or Anal Stimulation...
California Exotic
$30.00
The Accommodator - Chin Strap Dong The Original Accommodator Latex Dong oral sex aid.  The ultimate hands free oral sex stimulator now available in ivory and black. Each sold separately.  Pliable Latex dong fits comfortably on the head of the...
Tantus
$51.99
Charmer Charmer is a dildo strap-on designed to hit the G-spot over and over as it's worked in and out. Many people do not know how to find the G-spot. Most G-spot toys on the market are 6" in length, which has led people to think they are supposed to...
Tantus
$71.29
Buzz Buzz has a smooth body with a flared head you can really appreciate and is suited perfectly for harness play. Set the bullet vibrator in the base and feel it all the way up the shaft! The flared base is easy to hold or slip into a harness. Details: ...
$65.00
Colour Pride Edition Show your true colors with NS Novelties Pride Edition dongs. Inspired by the Pride flag, the rainbow colored dongs are made of superior grade silicone and feature a satin smooth texture and strong suction cup base for versatile play...
Maia Toys
$42.00
Maia D1 Maia D1's top-notched surface provides a uniquely satisfying experience. Suction mounted dong makes for easy handsfree solo play. Simply stick to any flat surface. Or use with an o-ring strap on for play with a partner. The soft-touch silicone...
$42.00
Maia Kendall Silicone Dong This is an adventure you are sure to find deeply satisfying. Suction mounted dong makes for easy hands free solo play. Simply stick to any flat surface or use with an o-ring strap on for play with a partner. The soft-touch...
Tantus
$74.99
Adam Super Soft Adam Super Soft is a semi-realistic dildo with hints of veins and a dramatic arch that plays especially well in a harness. This toy is perfect for g-spotting or p-spotting with a very generous base for a snug fit. Made from Tantus’...
Tantus
$50.55
Vamp The Vamp is a realistic form dildo with a pale flesh tone reminiscent of the moon's soft glow. Don't be surprised if this toy seduces you, its long sleek shaft and deliciously ridged head calling out to you in the night. But don't save this for just...
Tantus
$79.99
The Duke by Tantus All hail The Duke! The Duke Strap-on with vibrator commands power and pleasure with a smooth, firm shaft and emphasized ridges on an imposing head for repeated G-spot stimulation. Together with a waterproof bullet-vibe that gives waves...
California Exotic
$74.99
ME2 Vibrating Probe Ergonomically designed to fit both your hand and your body, you will find pleasure and ease are all yours. Enjoy the ultimate in sensual satisfaction. Rechargeable vibrator requirements 150 minutes. Maximum charge time 120 minutes...
Fun Factory
$59.99
The Boss The Boss Dildo is a realistic and satisfyingly sized dildo. Made for G-spot stimulation veins and a pronounced head are sure to make for an immensely enjoyable experience. Feautures: Strap-on compatible Extra thin base Made of body-safe...
Tantus
$84.06
Cush O2 The Cush O2 Dong with graceful curves of the Cush is designed to stimulate the G-spot, and create a crescendo of sensation during use. The softer outer layer coupled with the brightly-colored firmer core makes this one of the most comfortable...
Tantus
$76.42
Flurry The Flurry is an anatomically targeted Tantus product made specifically to stimulate the G-spot. Flurry's tapered shape features a bulked up base perfect for harness play. Tantus Dual Density O2 line is designed to feel realistic, featuring a...
Tantus
$44.10
Sport The ideal medium sized toy, Tantus Sport Black G-Spot Probe is sleek with a head that is just enough, without being too much. Made of Tantus 100% ultra premium Silicone. A perfect toy for strap-on harness play. Harness compatible. Safe for...