So I read the fist, oops, first of the series in less than two days. It's an easy read and I thoroughly enjoyed it but I have one piece of constructive criticism, "Don't put any sugary substances in your cooch, no matter how kinky or fun you might think it might be." Being tied up definitely has some excitement to it and I have figured out that I am definitely not the submissive in any of my relationships. I like being on top, literally. But I do like a partner that knows how to please and isn't a wimp in bed. Let's take turns with control.
This past week end, I had some husbands and boyfriends come in who were sent by their wives/significant others and they said something to the effect of, "I don't know why my wife is sending me here for this but I need the following:"
Uh... a spreader bar
In Fifty Shades of grey, they do mention safe words. Safe words are a good practice and perhaps the first step is to use these words in some light bondage instead of going full force into it. Bondage can be exciting but trust definitely is an issue. On my first Valentine's Day with my husband, I tried out some light bondage and it was a hot experience. I even decided to video tape the event.First, I had him take a shower as I got the room ready. I lit some candles and put on a patent leather criss-cross teddy with a snap crotch underneath my bath robe. After he finished bathing, I blindfolded him and led him to the four poster bed. Then I took two of his ties and tied him to the slots on the headboard. I attempted to tie his ankles but he didn't go for that.
It was great for me. I teased him with feathers and honey dust, licking away the dust from his belly. I straddled his face and he tried to reach out for me but he couldn't. Unfortunately the ties were too tight around his wrists and he complained so I had to loosen them. Finally he wanted the blindfold off and I sucummed to his wishes. And when he finally had his orgasm, he did a double take toward the video camera which he just noticed and whispered, "Are you video taping us?" and I giggled.
When we watched the video afterwards, it was quite funny. 'Happy Valentines Day' blocked most of the porn and my head was conveniently turned away from the camera. His expression of seeing the camera was the best part of the video and I was happy my first light bondage porn was both hot and amusing. Once in a while I pull it out when I am having some "ME" time and watch it, reliving the scrumptious experience.